For over 10 million students and parents, time to prepare
for college becomes a reality they must confront sometime during their junior
or senior year of high school. The
parent of a successful college bound student is well prepared for the decisions
that lie ahead. Along the way parents have hundreds of questions that often go
unanswered. Below are some quick tips
that will make your college planning beneficial. Additional tips are available in
a book I’ve written titled the Parent’s Ultimate Education Guide at
http://bit.ly/1wJHWaa.
1. Finding
scholarships is easier than you think.
Your student should start searching for scholarships during the 9th
grade. Categorize your scholarships and
begin to apply during the junior year.
2. When
it comes to a decision about living on campus know your child. Most students benefit from staying on campus
especially in classes that require team work.
3. Spend
special time communicating with your son/daughter throughout the senior
year. Don’t wait until you drop them off
at their college dorm.
4. If
you know your son/daughter weaknesses find out about tutoring and ask them to
sign up right away.
5. When
your son/daughter calls you regularly ask open-ended questions. Use sentences like; what do you like about
your math teacher? Frequently asking
open-ended questions will allow you the get a sense of their anxieties and
stresses.
6. During
your students orientation write down the names of college administrators who
have invited you to maintain contact with them during your student’s
enrollment.
7. Identify
a relative or a friend in the city where your student will attend college. Having a local contact is important in case
there is an emergency.
8. Don’t
over pack when you consider how much your student needs in their college dorm
room. Most dorm rooms are small and they can only hold a few larger items like
a television, computer and small refrigerator.
9. Sending your son/daughter to college
with a computer is essential.
10. Establish
a check point conversation once every month during the senior year. This conversation will help you to point your
son/daughter in the right direction.
11. Remind
your student to avoid the urge to sign up for credit cards when they arrive on
campus. The credit cards offered on
campus have very high interest rates.
12. Open
up a bank account for your student and ask for a debit card. You can put money into the account when your
student has a need. Also, other
relatives and friends can make deposits.
Schools should find creative ways to engage parents throughout
their child’s high school experience. Don’t wait until the 12
th
grade year to get started on your student’s college preparation. Go on college
tours and talk to faculty and students on each campus. Dr. Stephen Jones is an
education advocate, workshop presenter and author of the Parent’s Ultimate
Education Guide, the Seven Secrets of How to Study and the Ultimate Scholarship
Guide at
http://bit.ly/1wJHWaa. You can call 610-544-5480 or Learn@DrStephenJones.net Join the newsletter at
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